smoking is to calm them so you are less likely to get stung. The smaller the number of bees, the more docile they are. So, smoke if needed.Or use sugar syrup, that is refrigerated a little bit. Spray them as you open gently and they will calm donw, if you have it, add some honmey-be helathy which will mask scent of queen. If the seller said release her, do so. the longer she is banked, the longer she will delay in starting to lay. Just release her inside your hive w/ lid partially over your hands. you have no foundation to get in way. Go for it. Always remember, if you dont make mistakes, you'll never learn!