Randy, when I count my mites, I think that I look like something from outer space or something. I sit at my kitchen table, I have a device that I attach to my head that has a little magnifying glass that helps to magnify the mites. The mites are very obvious. But, a little magnification certainly does help, along with some good light.
You will see them easily. They are rather shiny, flat, kind of ovalish, can range from reddish brown to darker. Count only the larger brownish ones, they are the females. The ones that appear smaller or not so brownish, but more of a beige are not the mature females (the ones you need to focus on). Good luck and have a little fun while you are doing it. Tell us about your mite counts. Have a wonderful day, Cindi