Not everyone wants to donate to Red Cross (iddee, looking at you
). There are some others that I have worked with or belong to and can recommend.
Team Rubicon does a lot of physical stuff like mucking out, running heavy equipment, cutting trees, etc. A lot of former military.
Samaritans Purse does feeding, has medical facilities, and does a lot of counseling. Not sure if they do shelters.
Salvation Army feeds, shelters some, does counseling, and supplies necessities.
Southern Baptist Disaster Relief runs the cooking kitchens that Red Cross uses to feed.
If you want to donate to Red Cross, they do feeding, sheltering, counseling, and run the feeding trucks into the disaster areas so that people don't have to come to them. Salvation Army runs truck feeding too.
In the middle of that is FEMA getting under foot, but that's another story
Money is the best thing to send. It can be used to get exactly what is needed and goes back into the local community. Clothing and other stuff requires storage and sorting, and most of the time is more a problem than a help.