Sharon, ooooh don't worry, you are stressing about this (I know, easier said than done). When the rain stops then you can do stuff with the colonies. Giving the swarm colony a frame of brood in all stages will not do any harm, if can do much good, if the primary hive can spare that frame.
This is your year of learning, and you are learning well, look at the accomplishment you already have, that is good. We all learn by our mistakes (and let me tell you, I am the master of this learning curve). These are the hardest life lessons and we learn sound and hard lessons, so take it easy. Don't go and see the therapist yet, you are doing just fine and things will all work out in the wash. Hang tough, girl. So, go and have a wonderful and beautiful day, dream of the day when you will be so relaxed, so deep, so relaxed........that day will come. Cindi